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What’s going on, man? My name is Issam from DopeLifeCoaching.com – New York’s youngest Endorsed Dating & Relationship Coach. Today I’m going to be talking about how to get over the awkwardness when it comes to the first kiss.

Some guys tend to have fears when it comes to this and they’re trying to get over that awkwardness. You know, it takes time and practice, but it’s pretty simple – if you follow my work, that is!

I have FREE 10-minute consultations for those who book online sessions with me – first timers. Also, one-on-one coaching sessions. If you haven’t started it, just do it. It’ll be better for you. If you want to be part of our badass team, unless you want to be part of the mediocre team – in that case, they’re over there and not here!

Anyway, let’s get started!

So, how to get over the awkwardness of kissing girls for the first time – or making a move on a girl for the first time.

Before we start, let’s talk about a story one of my clients had.

One of my clients, from yesterday, he was out with a girl. The date went well and long story short, he ended up driving her home after the date. What happened was, he parked the car in front of her house and they were just talking and chit chatting like buddies. Which, a lot of these that are a part of Team Dope, they shouldn’t just be chit chatting like buddies – there should be flirtation and escalation. Come on, man!

But, anyways…they were just talking and chit chatting. Then what ended up happening is she was just like, “Ok, I have to go right now but it was nice seeing you.” Whatever – that’s what happens. About a week later, a couple of days later (I can’t remember), she reached out to him on one of his Instagram posts with heart eyes because he had a good-looking picture. So then asked her when she was free to get together again. He asked her that and she just didn’t answer so he’s kind of freaking out – what to do?

So, while there still is hope, I did tell him one thing and I’m going to say it to all you guys right here – GO FOR THE MOVE! Have the fucking balls to go for the move. Here’s the thing – when you don’t kiss a girl, there is no proof that you’re into her more than just a friend, or that you have romantic interest in her. And that is the behavior of pussies and we want to get that behavior out of our systems because here at Team Dope, we’re not pussies.

There’s two ways to do this and it’s pretty simple.

The first way is to just basically attack the fear head on and go for it – not be a little bitch – which you should be doing, you shouldn’t be a little bitch. So, that’s the first way to do it.

The second way is the way that’s worked a lot for me – most of the time it works – but even if it doesn’t, you know, we always find a way. It’s by playing a game. What type of game are you going to play? It’s thumb wrestling. For those of you who don’t know, you can take your hands and play the game, you know, “1, 2, 3, 4. I declare a thumb war.” Then, basically the winner tries to pin the loser down for 3 seconds and that makes them a loser. You know, play the first time – be playful, be competitive. The second time, same shit. The third time, be like, “Okay, we’re going to play but the difference is there’s going to be a rule.” She’s going to be like, “What’s the rule?” You’re going to be like, “The loser is going to kiss the winner.” And then you just play.

You don’t go like the loser is going to kiss the winner and look at her face like [that]. Or “The loser is going to kiss the winner.” No – that’s just creepy. It shows that you’re too eager and that you’re just trying to qualify yourself to her. Ideally, you want to make her qualify herself to you. That’s a point for you badasses out there that are watching right now – or YouTubie badasses.

The loser kisses the winner. More than likely she’s going to accept, or just nod her head and accept. Then there’s a small chance that she doesn’t accept, where she’s like, “Oh wait, I can’t just kiss you for the first date.” In which case, you want to be playful. You want to make her qualify herself to you, instead of what most guys do and they qualify themselves to the girl. Which every single girl is used to and then she is just going to associate you with being the same as every other guy.

You play that game and then the loser kisses the winner and then you go for it. If she says no then you can say she must be a bad kisser then. Then she’s going to be like, “What? Prove it! You clearly are a bad kisser. I’m totally irresistible but you don’t want to kiss me. Come on. I want to see – I want to see if you’re a bad kisser or not! Prove it!” Then she has to qualify herself to you then she’s going to be the one that wants to kiss you. In some instances, she’s still not going to want to but at least you tried. Ah, whatever, still a bad kisser.

Those tricks are pretty much bulletproof when it comes to these things because they eliminate all awkwardness and when you joke around about it, it really eliminates all awkwardness as is. So you’re good, man! There’s nothing really to be fearful of!

Also, please guys – please please please please – since you’re part of Dope Life Coaching, this badass team here. You want to be assertive. You want to get to the point. You want to go in, you don’t want to be a pussy, because pussies don’t get anywhere with girls. You want to be a pussy? Go there, you know, not here.

What team would you rather be a part of? Team Dope Life Coaching or the pussies over there. [Silence] Exactly. Team Dope.

Do that and I guarantee you a huge impact on your daily life will be made. You’re going to make a lot of progress with women and this is going to be very easy for you in the future and it’s just going to be a part of who you are. And all the women are going to be like, “Oh there’s just something so different about you. How are you so ballsy? I don’t know. There’s just something different about him.” Which is going to make them wonder about you and wonder about you and wonder about you and try to pursue you even more because you’re completely different than all of the other guys. Don’t you want that to happen? Exactly. You do!

That pretty much sums it up. Don’t forget to hit the like and subscribe button to my video, or you can book a session right now at www.dopelifecoaching.com. Again, free 10-minute consultation for the first timers and you might want to take advantage because this offer is going to expire soon.

Also, my clients who took the booking sessions for one-on-one coaching, they’ve usually been the ones to do better, and usually at least once or twice a week, those dedicated clients – the loyal ones, not sure if all of you are loyal – but the loyal ones who tend to do the best in the smallest amount of time.

So, do that, visit my website, subscribe and I’ll see you soon, dude. Peace, man.

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What’s going on, guys? My name is Issam from DopeLifeCoaching.com. Today I’m going to be discussing how to transition from just dating to getting to a relationship – an exclusive relationship.

So basically, what happens a lot of times when you’re with a girl you’re dating and you’ve been seeing each other for a few weeks, you’ve been on a lot of dates. You think to yourself, “Well how do I transition from this phase to the next phase of the dating phase. To be honest with you, there’s more than one answer. There’s no right or wrong answer. It’s just personal preference. But for me, personally, I’ll tell you what I like to do. Even what I like to changes, but here’s what I like to do!

So let’s say you’re dating a woman, and, you know, everything’s been going well. Let’s say you’ve been going out for five weeks and during those five weeks you saw each other, say at least 5 times, between 5 – 8 times. Let’s just say it’s just 5. Everything is going well. What I want you to do is, I don’t want you to get right into asking her to be yours exclusively, which can work if everything is going well. But I want you to A.) Take your time with it because when you take your time with it, you’re going to be more certain of her, and she’s going to be more certain of you. And also, there is a saying that says, “Easy come, easy go.” If you go too quickly, it’s going to be bad in the sense of, it could work out by all means, but you want to fully know the person first. But at the same time, you don’t want to wait to long.

#1.) Take your time with it.

2.) You want her to work for you. What I mean by “want her to work for you is” – don’t take this the wrong way, she’s not going to be your slave. But, I mean I want her to earn you. She should be the one to earn you. Because a lot of guys, especially if she’s attractive, throw themselves at her. She is getting DMs all day, social media messages, Snapchats, texts – you name it. She’s getting hit on in the streets, even if she’s just mildly attractive. So what you want to do is give her that space to make her wonder where she stands with you. Even if you’re dating other women, don’t disclose this information. Or keep it mysterious, like “Yeah, I’m dating around.” BUT there is a different trick to this and we’re going to discuss it.

So, you’re dating a woman, let’s say, like I said, it’s 5 weeks, and you guys are enjoying each other’s company. And if she asks you, like if she ever says, “I enjoy your company so much!” you can reciprocate, be like, “So do I! It’s just amazing talking to you.” Try not to bring up getting exclusive until she asks a questions that’s related to it, even if it’s not directly related to it. She asks something like, some women will be direct after a couple of months.

When I say a couple of months, it’s usually like 2, maybe 3, maybe even less, but that’s the average if you’re doing everything else right. When they ask that question, like, if it’s a direct question, they could be like, “Where do you see this going?” Then you just say the truth. Say, “Honestly, I feel like we’re really connecting and we should take the next step.” If you feel it! If you don’t fully feel it, be like, “I like how things are going and this could turn into a potential relationship.” That could be another answer.

But the idea is, put it in her shoes. Put the ball in her court and make her ask the question because then it’s her idea that she made it into a relationship. The reason to do this is not to play games, it’s because you want to make her certain and make her curious and make her wonder and make her invest. And then when she’s sure, or she’s curious, she’s going to ask the question and you’re going to give a response. That’s it! And in the meantime, be dating other women, if you want to, because it’s your right to. And then just rinse, recycle and repeat. Date, go out and see her on dates.

Most of the times you interact with her should be in person. And when it’s not in person, I highly recommend a phone call or FaceTime, which is even better because then you get to see them and feel their physical energy. Text, it could be interpreted in many different ways. If they just say “lol”, that could mean anything. That could mean she’s laughing or “lol = I’m bored and I have nothing left to say”, which is most likely the case.

So what you want to do is just take it easy, step by step. Don’t focus on the relationship, just focus on having a good time and hanging out with her and creating good memories and making her feel the best feelings possible. Emotionally, sexually, mentally – every way you can. Get her to feel all these things with you, get her to adventure with you. Get her to see your vulnerability. Get her to see sides of you that no one else sees. Get her to figure out something new about you every time. That’s going to work and that’s going to make her want to commit to you. It’s just – hold your horses and give it some time.

Eventually that question is going to pop up one way, shape or form. Maybe she asks where do you see us going or where do you see the future going between us? Or what do you see in the future with me? Or are we exclusive yet? Or what are we? It could be anything. But try not to bring these up unless she does. Unless of course she’s the type of girl that needs reassurance because of her past, her bad past, and if you really want to continue dating her, then do it. But if she’s really damaged and you feel like she hasn’t really healed 100%, I’d prefer, if you really like her, then yes continue seeing her and make it exclusive if she’s worth it. But if you feel like a lot of things need to fixed and she needs to work on her self first then , I suggest letting her work on herself first then maybe in the future, somewhere down the line, then pursue something with her. Because that could be a bit difficult a lot of times. Because then you have communication issues, sometimes you have trust issues, jealousy issues, over jealousy, and so on and so forth.

So, guys, when you transition from just regular dating to a relationship, make it simple. Don’t complicate it and don’t talk about these relationship labels unless she brings them up. She may bring it up because she may not be ready or maybe she wants to know where she stands with you. In which case you communicate but other than that, let her wonder and then eventually she’s going to – the more she wonders the more she’s going to be talking to her girlfriends – “what do you think he meant by this? Do you think I should ask him? Do you think I should tell him?” But instead, if you just gave everything away she’s going to be like, “Oh, this guy is an easy catch, I could have him like [this].” You want her to earn you. You don’t want to just give yourself like that.

Give her a good time. Show her an amazing time, hold her hand, be affectionate. Call her babe. Do all these things and until she mentions it, and you’re ready, then you do it. You could also tell her, if you feel like she’s the type that’s really reserved – if she’s the type that’s really reserved emotionally, I’m not talking about religiously, but emotionally – if you feel like she will not open up in this aspect of being exclusive, then maybe you could suggest you two being exclusive when you fully feel like she is the one for you “right now”. Then you fully do it. Then you talk to her and be like, “Look. You know…” You don’t just say it out of the blue, but when you guys are connecting and – try to keep it in person, be like, “ I feel like we’re really connecting and I wanted to take the next step.” Then she could say one or two things. “Oh, I’m not fully ready right now, but let’s just slow down.” In which case you slow down. Or she could be like, “ Yeah, I want that, too” And then Boom! You have an exclusive relationship.

It’s really not that complicated. We tend to complicate things. So do that, keep it simple. Try not to rush it because a lot of guys, a lot, way too many guys, from the very beginning, from like the first or second date – they’ve only ever seen each other twice or interacted like twice, plus a couple of text messages and a couple of phone calls here and there – they’re trying to push it! “Oh, where’s this going? Do you think you want to get married soon? Do you want to get married? When are you graduating? Oh, do you see kids in the future? She’s going to be like, “Whoa wait. Relax bro. Relax dude. I like you but you’re like pushing me and it’s uncomfortable.” Women fall in and out of love and so do the guys so you need to understand where she’s coming from. To understand how to get her to want to transition to the next phase.

So that pretty much covers the transitioning phase from just dating to getting exclusive. If you want more info or want to get my personal help, the best and quickest way is to Book a paid phone coaching session on my website – www.dopelifecoaching.com. We have free 10-minute consultations for first timers. Try to take advantage as soon as you possible because the offer is going to expire soon. Other than that, try to book a paid session that’s either 45 minutes long to an hour long. Whatever floats your boat. And I will certainly be able to help you in the quickest way and most efficient way possible regarding dating and relationships, even pick-up, marriage, you name it. And I will see you soon, bro. Take care.

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What’s going on man? My name’s Issam from Dope Life Coaching.com, New York’s youngest endorsed dating & relationship coach. The topic of today’s video is going to be when a woman gets distant, or she backs off, or when she’s acting hot and cold.

Now before I get into my video, I’d just like to talk about, for you, to his the subscribe button below. And if you want to book a one-on-one session on my website, the quickest way is to go to https:/book-online and we have free consultations for first times. So make sure all you badasses take advantage of that as soon as possible!

So, basically, our email is from one of my clients – his name is David. I mean, he’s not exactly a client yet, but he’s going to be a client. I already know this. So David sent an email on my email list on the website. For those of you that don’t know, just go to the home page all the way down and you can send an email for free and I’ll just answer it.

So what happened was he sent an email. His request was, “What do I do about the fact that my girlfriend has been hot and cold lately?” Or, she’s been distant. And since he didn’t specify, I am just going to go over whatever I can.

When a woman backs off of you, like that, there are usually multiple reasons.

#1. She could be on her period. Maybe it has nothing to do with you.

2. Maybe you said something stupid or something that turned her off and she doesn’t have any…you know, she doesn’t want to talk about it yet. Or maybe she’s uncomfortable with it or she’s just turned off to the point that she doesn’t want to talk about it.

Or it could just be that she’s busy. I mean, what is it right now? Late April? She has exams to deal with dude. Be patient, you’re part of Team Dope, come on.

Seriously though, when women do something like that, it’s usually those cases. Either she’s too busy with, like exams and stuff, I mean, nevermind – what the fuck did I just say?

There’s no such thing as too busy, but either she’s busy with exams or busy with something on the side for just a temporary period, in which case you should just relax and pull back. Maybe don’t text her as often – text her once per day, maybe, because she’s kind of your girlfriend, dude. Come on!

Text her once per day and be like, “ Hey Babe. I just hope your day is going awesome and I was thinking about you. “ And that’s it! And let her respond when she responds. Just show you care and don’t be too pushy.

Do that – that’s if she just backs off. Because you want to know what happened. Then if she’s giving you just one-word answers, be like, “Is everything fine?” Dig deeper. And then if she says just yeah, and doesn’t explain then obviously you have to dig deeper. In which case you should probably call her later on in the day. Be like, “When are you free later on so you can talk on the phone? I want to hear your voice!” And then you find out what’s wrong with her, because texting is a big space for miscommunication and it tends to get fucked up a lot of the times by both guys and girls. So that’s one reason.

The other reason could be just her period. She just, you know, women’s emotions fluctuate, bro. That’s just how it is. Come on, bro. Gotta deal with it. Sometimes she’s hot, sometimes she’s cold. Sometimes she’s hot, sometimes she’s cold. Sometimes she has other things going on. Sometimes she hears a story from one of her girlfriends that made her feel very emotional and sad and distant. I don’t know. It could be anything. Or maybe she talks to her girlfriends about you and then she said something about you to them and they were just like, “Oh, he shouldn’t have done that.” So maybe she’s going to grow distance, because that’s just how women are, bro, sometimes. Don’t take it personally.

So, what do we say? Busy or she’s on her period or she could just be upset with you, in which case you have to communicate and you have to talk to her, like I said, tell her when she’s free so you guys can both talk.

But the idea is, like, which is more important than all of this which is this point right here. You have to be able to maintain your emotional stability and your emotional, you know, sense of wellbeing. The moment a woman realizes that she is the center of your entire life and nothing in your life is more important except for her, and you basically can’t live without her, then she is going to back off and it’s just a matter of time before she leaves. Come on dude, like you have to maintain emotional stability, an emotional sense of wellbeing. You have to maintain emotional independence.

Emotional Independence. That’s the thing that is going to attract her. Because when she notices that, no matter what she does, you’re still going to be working on yourself and improving yourself. That doesn’t phase you, that you’re still going to be working on yourself if she backs off, it doesn’t phase you. She wants to see this, bro! Come on man, you’re a badass. The fact that you’re a part of my team now makes you a badass, unless you want to go to the mediocre team, which we’re definitely not a part of. Go ahead and do that. Oh man, I’m being too much right now.

But anyway, that’s what a woman wants to see. She wants to see that you have your own emotional strength and your own shit together. And god forbid, if she were to pass, or if she were to choose to leave you, that you’re not just going to lose your shit and not be able to take care of yourself. She wants to see this. She wants to see that you’re emotionally independent and that you can do well on your own. And that you’d love to have her in your life, even if you’re crazy about her, and she knows this. But at the end of the day, you’re a guy who’s emotionally independent and you have limits.

That could be something else. Maybe she’s just getting used to just not talking to you and blacking you out and blocking you off from her life for days at a time, when one thing goes wrong. In which case, you don’t just pass that. You say you’re sorry when you noticed that you did something wrong or fucked up. But she has to be able to accept your apology. She can’t just keep going on about it know that he’s just going to keep chasing me. That’s fine.

No, that’s not fine! Sometimes you have to be serious like that and draw the line. Women love it when a man has limits, because she’s going to test you at some point, to see if you really have those limits. To see if you’re about that life, like you claim you are.

So it could be a variety of things but the idea is to stay true to yourself and be emotionally independent. Have your own sense of emotional wellbeing. Because most guys don’t know this, bro. Most guys, they just think, they think in terms of logic and reason, whereas women don’t. They’re like, “Oh, she was crazy about me three days ago, but now she’s not.” Women are very in the moment and it depends on their emotions.

Us guys think logic and reason. Logic and reason, logic and reason, logic and reason. They’re different. Our brains are different from theirs. Some similarities, yes. But for the most part, no. So you have to understand this, man. The emotional independence. You’re happy independent of her. Of course you’ll be much more happy with her, if she’s your girlfriend, I assume you really love her and are crazy about her, which ideally is what it should be. If not, then come on man, you need my coaching. You need one-on-one coaching with me, bro. No, but for real. If that’s the case, then you should at least definitely try to improve your relationship, to say the least.

So that pretty much covers everything. If you would like to get my help personally, like I said, the quickest way is to book a paid coaching session on my website, https:/book-online.

Free consultations for first timers – free 10 minute consultation. Take advantage of that as soon as possible because, who knows, maybe it’s going to go away by tomorrow. Limited time, bro. Come on, you should know this by now.

That pretty much wraps up the video. That’s pretty much it. Be a badass. Dominate your life. Be emotionally independent and focus on yourself and communicate properly.

Peace dude.

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What’s going on guys my name’s assam. I’m from dopeLifecoaching.com. Today I’m going to be talking about how to get her to instantly chase you. Now before I go into detail about any of this, there is a disclaimer. And this is the disclaimer: This is really going to work on women who are at least partially interested in you, or have at least kind of been flirting with you or you have kind of been flirting with her. This isn’t going to work on a women who blew you off and she was never interested in you from the start. So don’t just try to take the easy way out and try to at least be proactive about what you do. Even if this isn’t the video for you there are other videos for you. Then there are other videos for you, but this really can work.

Anyways here’s the topic of the video. What we’re trying to do here, is to get the woman to chase you, instantly. This could literally happen instantly. This is given that she has at least been minimally attracted to you. Is what you have to learn how to change their subconscious attraction into conscious attraction. Again you have to be able to switch her subconscious attraction towards you into conscious attraction, the point where she knows she’s attracted to you. She doesn’t just, kind of guess somewhere in her subconscious, no she knows. Not only does she know she knows that you know that she’s attracted to her.

This is very important. It could seem very minimal but again this is something subtle but we want to switch from the subtle to the obvious, because that is going to make it more easier, her walls are going to go down and the communication is going to be easier as well and she’s going to be more open and more comfortable with you. Granted of course that she at least has some interest in you.

So, what are a few ways to do this? For example, you could be talking to a girl who’s form- let’s say its from your social circle. You- you know- you kind of like her. You can you know as you two are flirting, maybe by message or maybe by phone, you could be “like tell you what, I have a great idea for thursday, or whatever, thursday- friday. What’s your schedule like?” And she might be like- she’s either going to give you her schedule, and say she’s free, which is the best, or she might give you a little resistance. She might be like, “why?” you might be like “I have an awesome idea that I’ve been thinking about for a couple days and I just thought it would be awesome to experience with you if you feel the same way.” Now here’s something that’s very crucial and powerful at the same time. These words “If you feel the same way.” Can make a huge difference if she likes you. “If you feel the same way.” Even if she minimally likes you, but it’s subconscious, it could switch it to the conscious.

Say- you know- I just wanted to go to this place, and I’ll keep it a surprise, but I’ve been thinking about it for the past couple of days, and if you feel the same way I wanted to go with you. And she might mean, “what do you mean if you feel the same way?” And generally you want to joke with women and be playful with them a lot, but in this case, don’t be playful. Like if she’s says what do you mean when you say if you feel the same way, just be like, “honestly, I’m kind of digging you, and -you know- I don’t fully know you, but I’m kind of digging you and I want to see- I want to go out with you and just see what happens. She’s going to respect that if she likes you, even if she doesn’t like you, she’s going to respect the fact that you’re honest. If she doesn’t like you, she might be like, “sorry, I’m just busy nowadays blah blah blah.” When a woman gives you these bullshit answers, busy, or whatever the fuck it is, my dog got sick or whatever, she’s not interested, it’s her way of saying, I’m not interested bro. Try it on someone else. That’s it.

So, that’s one way you could do it, but before I discuss the other way, just remember, this is so cool, because when a woman is conscious of the way that she likes you, and better yet, consciously aware that you know it, that you’re ok with it, her walls are going to go down, she’s going to be more open with you. You can get her to you know, open up more. She’s going to be easier to talk to, easier to influence, easier to get to second base with her. And so on and so forth. So that’s one example.

What else could you say? You know that’s just one example. You could just be like, you know, if you’ve been talking for awhile and you want her to -you know- chase you more, if she’s not- if you don’t feel like she’s putting in enough effort, you could say something like, I mean because this worked on one of my clients the other day, if you two are dating and she says something like, “where do you see this going?” You could say something along the lines of, how you truly feel, for example, for him, he was just like, “I’ve honestly never felt this before,” -because she was asking him you know like oh like “where do you want to go with me to the future?” like for travel and stuff it was kind of a joke and kind of serious at the same time. … But when she asked him he says “ I want to travel this with you, I want to have new memories with you, experience new things with you” and then she was like, “you want all this with me?” and he was like, “in all honesty yes I do, I want all these with you”, and then she was like, “how do you know you want all these with me? Talk to me, babe,” she said that to him, and he was like, “honestly I’ve never felt this way about anyone else, before” And that opened her up and she started pursuing him more, that’s what you want, you want the woman to pursue you more, as long as you guys have that connection. And it worked and now things are going amazing, of course, because he’s been following what i’ve been teaching him, he’s been sticking to my coaching sessions, and right now- pretty much- he’s- his head’s in the clouds. I want the same for you too.

So you want to switch a subconscious attraction to the conscious, because, let me tell you something right now, one of the six basic human needs for us, us human beings, is certainty. She could be 80-90% sure that she likes you, or that you like her, but she’s not a hundred percent sure. That certainty could make her back up a bit and make her a bit scared. But once she’s certain that you actually genuinely like her, and you’re not just seeing her as some fuck-buddy or whatever, she’s going to be more open to actually pursuing you. And even if it’s not something serious, if she knows you like her, that’s- that’s good enough. Obviously, it depends on what you’re looking for, but this is just general. You know there’s, for more specific cases, there’s a different approach, but this is uh, it’s very powerful, it works for a lot of people. Again, don’t you dare try this on someone you just met, because, you know you don’t just want to bring that out, if you barely even know them, like if you feel the same way. If you feel the same way? Like, you don’t even know me.

There’s got to be something between you. Even if you guys never met that many times in person, but maybe you did by text, I don’t know, maybe it was Facetime, there’s a unique situation, but be creative about this and figure out a way to do it. Turn from the subconscious to the conscious, make sure she’s at least somewhat interested in you, or even if she’s uncertain, and you give that off, that’s going to make her curious and that’s going to make her thinking about you, and when a woman thinks about you, and you’re backing off, which is what you should be doing at this point, if you have her thinking about you, then she’s investing, and when she’s investing, that means she likes you more, and when she likes you more, she’s going to do and say things that mean she likes you more. And that’s just how it is, that’s just how it is with women.

So, I would suggest doing that, and especially if she’s not 100% sure, I would do it and then back off. Maybe, let it marinate for a few hours, maybe a few days, depending on her, I don’t know, maybe she’s not even going to answer, but say it, and then cut down the texts to her, because, then she’s going to think, she’s going to think about this, most likely she will, most likely she’s going to think about this, she’s going to think where did he go, but then again he said he likes me. Now she’s confused, and the fact that you were truthful about it, she’s going to think. She’s going to have to make a decision, do I like him or not, do I like him or not, and the fact that she’s think, already makes it towards the yes answer than the no answer. Do I like him or not, the answers most likely going to be yes, because she’s investing, she’s investing because she’s thinking.

Try it, this is extremely powerful, don’t listen to the people out there who say, oh you have to blurt it out and be 100% honest from the beginning. Yeah, I’m not asking you to lie, but then again, you got to get out there and play your cards right. You got to, there’s a way to do everything, it’s not just you blurt everything out. There’s ways to do it and there’s time to do it. This is very powerful when it’s done correctly. Anyways that’s pretty much the idea of this video. And if you would like to get my help personally, the quickest way is to book a paid phone coaching session. The link is on the bottom in the description.

Www.dopelifecoaching.com. And then you can book either 45 minute session, 1 hour session or you can choose the free 10 minute consultation session for first timers, only for first timers, because I have to take care of my paying clients first, before I just take care of the free customers, you know, but i’m doing my best with youtube videos, and uh yeah, do your best and do that it’s going to work, and I shall see you soon. Peace man.

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